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Bisexual men dating, casual, flirty or the real thing
A night out that goes somewhere, a regular thing, a relationship, or a chat that turns interesting. Say which, meet adults who’ve said the same, and nobody asks you to pick a side.
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Say it up front, and keep the controls
This is an adult site, so the flirting can be direct. What keeps it good is that everyone is clear about what they want and everyone is into it.
Say what you’re after
Choose any mix of men, women, couples and non-binary people to meet, and pick interests that say it for you, from Chat Only to Experienced meets.
Decide what’s seen
Real names and emails are never public, and the location shown is your nearest town or city. Discreet Meets is one of the interests, if that matters to you.
Say no, any time
Block anyone instantly, report people or content from inside the site, or just ignore a message. The site warns you if someone tries to take the chat to another app.
Skip the awkward opener
Interests such as Bicurious, Straight Curious, First Time Encounter and Experienced meets show where you are, so you don’t have to explain yourself in every conversation.
VIP members can also filter by where someone lives, how far away they are, experience level and what they’re open to.
Couples are members too, so a couple may message you. Reply, ignore or block, whichever you like.
Keep it flirty, keep it smart
Write one line you mean
What you’re up for, in your own words. Leave out last names, addresses, workplaces, phone numbers and social media details, as the Terms ask.
Verify, if you want the badge
You can get a badge through free ID verification or a live video check, which needs no documents. Neither is compulsory, so not every member has one.
Chat, then meet in public
Reply to daily matches at your own pace. When you meet, choose a bar or a restaurant, tell a friend where you’ll be and keep your own way home.
Agree the rules before the evening gets going
Say what you want and what you don’t, and bring up protection early. A yes counts only while it’s still a yes, and either of you can stop at any point.
Bi Friends doesn’t run criminal background checks, and profiles may not be genuine, so rely on your own judgement as well as the safety tools.
Questions bi men ask
Is it only about casual dates?
No. Bi men here are after all sorts: a no-strings night, a regular thing, a relationship, or just a good chat. Pick the interests that fit, and update them whenever that changes.
Will I only be matched with women?
No. When you join, you say who you’d like to meet and can pick any combination of men, women, couples and non-binary people.
Can I keep it discreet?
You control what your profile says. Your real name and email are never public, members see only your nearest town or city, and the Terms ask everyone to keep last names, addresses and workplaces off profiles. Discreet isn’t invisible, though: your profile is also visible on the company’s sister sites, and a recognisable photo or bio detail could still identify you.
What if I just want to chat?
Chat Only is one of the interests you can pick. Nobody is owed a meeting, and a conversation can stay a conversation.
What if someone sends me something I didn’t ask for?
Potentially sensitive images arrive blurred, with a warning. You can block the person at once and report them or the content from inside the site.
Is it free?
Joining is free. Classic members can browse, get daily matches and send a limited number of messages a day. VIP adds things like sending as many messages as you like and advanced filters; see the pricing page.
Other pages: bi women, couples, bi-curious.
Come as you are. Ask for what you want
Classic membership is free, and you decide what happens next.
Adults only: 18+, or 21+ in some places.