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Bi-curious dating, no hurry, a little flirting
Wondering what it might be like? Start with a chat, flirt if it feels good, and take it as slowly as you like. Nobody here is counting the minutes.
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Start with Chat Only
Chat Only is an interest you can pick on day one. It tells people you’re here to talk, and a conversation can stay a conversation for as long as you want.
Pick Chat Only, plus whatever else is true
Add Bicurious, Straight Curious or First Time Encounter if they fit. You can change your interests later.
Say hello and see who answers
Reply to daily matches when you feel like it. Flirting is fine, and so is saying “not yet”.
Move on only when you want to
If the chat is going well and you’re curious, say so. If it isn’t, stop. There’s no timetable.
- Bicurious
- Straight Curious
- First Time Encounter
- Chat Only
- Experienced meets
- Discreet Meets
You set the pace
Say where you are
Pick the interests that fit now. It saves everyone a conversation, and it keeps the pushy ones away.
Look for the badge
Free ID verification and a live video check each add a badge. Both are optional, so not everyone has one.
Meet when it feels right
If you do meet, make it a public place, tell a friend and say what you’re comfortable with. You can leave whenever you like.
You choose what’s shown
Other members never see your real name or email, and they see your nearest town or city rather than your exact location. The Terms ask everyone to leave last names, addresses and workplaces off their profiles.
Discreet isn’t invisible. Bi Friends is one of several sites run by the same company, so people on its sister sites can see your profile, and a photo or a detail in your bio could give you away. Share only what you’d be happy for people you know to see.
If someone makes you uncomfortable, block them instantly and report them from inside the site. Read about consent and the safety tools.
Questions people ask first
What does bi-curious mean?
It usually means wondering about attraction to more than one gender. People use the word in different ways, and you can use it however suits you.
Do I need to know what I want?
No. Bicurious, Straight Curious and First Time Encounter are all interests on the site, and Chat Only is another. You can start with a conversation and see where it goes.
Will people expect something from me?
Nobody is owed a meeting. You can reply, ignore or block, and your profile says what you’re open to. Anyone who pushes can be blocked in one tap.
Is it all flirting and nothing else?
It can be as much or as little as you want. Some members are here for a flirty chat, some for a first experience and some for a relationship, and the interests make that clear.
Can I keep this private?
Other members never see your real name or email, and they see your nearest town or city rather than your exact location. A face or a detail in your bio might still be recognised, and your profile is also visible on the company’s sister sites.
Do I have to pay?
No. Classic membership is free. See the pricing page for what VIP and VIP+ add.
No hurry. Say hello when you’re ready
Classic membership is free, and nobody is owed a meeting.
Adults only: 18+, or 21+ in some places.