Bisexual dating for adults, from a flirty chat to whatever comes next
Casual dates, no-strings fun, a night out that goes somewhere, or the start of something longer. Say what you’re after, meet adults who want the same, and take it as far as you both like.
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Some of you want a spark. Some want more. Say which
This is an adult site for people who are comfortable with adult conversation, and it works best when everyone is upfront. Casual is fine. A relationship is fine. “Let’s see” is fine. Pick the page that sounds most like you.
Bi women
Flirt, date, take it slow or don’t. Meet people who ask, listen and don’t treat you as a fantasy.
For bi women →Bi men
No side to pick and nothing to prove. Chat, meet, see what’s there, and say it plainly on your profile.
For bi men →Couples
Join together, agree your boundaries first, then meet other couples or singles who respect them.
For couples →Bi-curious
Curious, and in no hurry? Start with Chat Only or a drink. Nobody needs a label to say hello.
If you’re curious →Three steps, and you set the heat
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Say who you are and who you’d like to meet: men, women, couples, non-binary people, or any mix.
Flirt first
Daily match suggestions arrive in your feed. Classic members can send a limited number of messages a day and can always reply to VIP and VIP+ members.
Meet when it feels right
Chat Only is one of the interests you can choose, and so are One on one fun, Couple fun and Experienced meets. You say which, and you can change your mind.
Different people, different reasons. That works when it’s said
Bi Friends doesn’t assume everyone wants the same thing. Interests on the site include:
- Bicurious
- Chat Only
- One on one fun
- Couple fun
- First Time Encounter
- Experienced meets
- Discreet Meets
- Straight Curious
VIP members can filter by city, distance, experience level and what someone is open to, which saves a lot of awkward first messages.
Adult, flirty and consensual. All three, every time
Bi Friends is for adults only: 18+, or 21+ where the age of majority is higher. Flirting is welcome. Pushing isn’t. Consent and respect aren’t small print here, they’re how the place works.
Yes is a yes. Maybe is a maybe
Nobody is owed a reply, a photo or a meeting. Say what you want, hear what they want, and stop the moment either of you isn’t sure.
You choose what you see
Images, video and text are screened when they’re uploaded, and anything potentially sensitive is blurred behind a warning, so looking is always your call.
Block and report
Block anyone in one tap. Report people or content from inside the site, and a support team is there 24/7.
Meeting someone new? Keep it fun and keep it smart
Bi Friends doesn’t run criminal background checks, so the sensible bits are yours to do. They take five minutes and they don’t spoil anything.
Meet somewhere public first
A bar or a restaurant, with your own way home. Tell a friend where you’ll be and when you’ll check in.
Keep the chat on the site
Warnings flag anyone who tries to move the chat to another app, a common scam tactic. Never send money, whatever the story.
Know who’s real
Free ID verification and a live video check each put a badge on a profile. ID verification is optional, so a missing badge isn’t proof of anything, but a badge is a good sign.
Talk about protection before you need to
Raise it early and plainly, and look after your own sexual health. It’s a grown-up conversation and it’s a good sign when the other person welcomes it. More on safety
What you get for nothing, and what the paid plans add
Joining is free. If you decide to upgrade, the pricing page sets the plans out and the payment page shows the price before you pay.
Classic (free)
- Profile and photos
- Browse members
- Daily match suggestions
- A limited number of messages a day
- Reply to VIP and VIP+ members
- Free ID verification
VIP
Everything in Classic, plus:
- As many messages as you like
- Advanced search filters
- Members-only chat rooms
- Private group chats of up to 50
- See who likes you
VIP+
Everything in VIP, plus:
- Exclusive matches
- Top of the daily match stack
- Priority for your messages and likes
- Boosts and Super Matches as paid add-ons
Some paid plans renew automatically until you cancel. The payment page says which, and the Terms (sections 3 and 4) cover renewal and cancelling.
Questions people ask before joining
Is Bi Friends just for hookups?
It’s an adult dating site, and plenty of members are after casual dates or no-strings fun. Others want a relationship, and some haven’t decided. The interests on your profile say which, so nobody has to guess. Anything illegal is out, including paid sexual services, and so is anyone under 18.
Do I need to be bisexual to join?
Bi, bi-curious and straight-curious adults are welcome, and so are couples. You don’t need a label to join.
How do I say what I want without being awkward?
Pick the interests that fit, such as Chat Only, One on one fun, Couple fun or Experienced meets, and add a line in your own words. Saying it up front is the flirtiest thing you can do, because the right people say yes and the wrong ones move on.
What if someone doesn’t take no for an answer?
No means no, and the Terms back that up. Block them in one tap and report the person or the content from inside the site. Potentially sensitive images arrive blurred, so you choose whether to look.
Do I have to be out to use it?
You choose what goes on your profile. Your real name and email are never shown publicly, and members see only your nearest town or city. The Terms also ask everyone to keep last names, addresses and workplaces off their profiles.
Are the profiles real?
Members can verify with an ID or a live video check and get a badge for it, but ID verification is optional, so not everyone has one. Bi Friends doesn’t run criminal background checks, and the Terms say plainly that profiles and messages may not be genuine. Block and report anyone who feels off.
Do I have to pay?
No. Classic membership is free and includes browsing, daily matches and a limited number of messages a day. Paid VIP and VIP+ plans are optional, and the pricing page says what each adds.